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Pull up a chair, Momni —

Every question, answered like a friend would.

No corporate non-answers here. Just the honest stuff, in plain English, the way you'd hear it over coffee while the littles play in the next room.

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New here?

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If you only read one section, read this — it's the whole heart of Momni in five questions.

What exactly is Momni?

Momni is Momnis helping Momnis — that's the whole secret.

Momni is a caresharing community: a place where Momnis find each other, get to know each other, and share care for one another's children — hosted in real homes, arranged mom-to-mom. Think of it as the neighborhood you wish you had, made findable.

It started in 2017 when Karmel, a mama of five in Utah, opened her own home to other Momnis' littles — and discovered thousands of Momnis wanted the very same thing, in both directions. That grew into a movement of 26,000+ Momnis in all 50 states. Read the whole story on Our Story.

What Momni is not: a daycare, an agency, or a babysitting service. Nobody works for Momni but Momni. The Momnis here are neighbors, not employees.
What does "caresharing" actually mean?

It's the word we use for something parents have always done: sharing the care of each other's children. One Momni hosts littles in their home; another gets the hours they need — for work, a night out, a night shift, or just a breath. Often the same Momni does both at different seasons of their life.

Daycare is a building. Babysitting is a transaction. Caresharing is a relationship between two Momnis — that's why everything on Momni starts with getting to know each other.

How do I join the Circle?

Three minutes, truly:

  • 1. Go to app.momni.com and create your free account.
  • 2. Tell the Circle about yourself and your littles — write it like you'd introduce yourself to a new friend.
  • 3. Put your pin on the map so Momnis near you can find you (your exact address is never shown).

That's it. Browse the Movement Map, join a Circle near you, or send your first Link.

Is Momni free?

Yes — joining is free, browsing is free, and hosting is free forever. The free tier includes your profile, the map, Circles, and a couple of Links a month to get you started.

If you want more, memberships start at $1 a month — and they're listed openly in the money section below, because we'd rather over-explain than surprise you.

So it's like a babysitting agency? A daycare?

No — and the difference matters. An agency picks people for you and stands behind them. Momni doesn't pick anyone. Every Momni here is here because they signed up — that's all it means. We never select, investigate, approve, or stand behind any member.

Getting to know a Momni, deciding whether to trust them, and choosing what to arrange is your job — exactly as it would be with a new neighbor. We say this loudly and often, because your littles deserve a Momni who's heard it. The whole honest picture is on our Transparency page.

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Booking care

we call them Links

On Momni a booking is a Link — because you're not ordering a service, you're linking arms with another Momni.

What kinds of care can I book?

Four ways, built around real Momni-life:

  • ⚡ Available Now — instant booking with Momnis who are open right now. The sitter-cancelled, meeting-moved, life-happened button.
  • 🌙 Night Out — an evening for you (and whoever makes you smile).
  • 🔄 Recurring — the same Momni, the same days, every week. Your regular.
  • 🌜 Overnight — night-shift Momnis, weekend getaways, longer trips. They've got the night watch.

And if what you really need is licensed group care, Find a Daycare helps you search that too — Momni is for you, whatever the answer turns out to be.

How do I pay the Momni who hosts my littles?

Directly. Always. Momni never touches care money.

You pay them the way friends pay each other — cash, Venmo, whatever you two agree. Their rate is theirs to set and 100% theirs to keep. Momni never processes the payment, never holds it, and never takes a percentage. Not now, not ever — it's a founding promise.

Why it matters: the moment a platform takes a cut, it has a reason to push prices up. We never want to be paid more because a Momni charged a Momni more.
Can I meet them before I book?

Please do — we'd be worried if you didn't. Message through the app, then meet somewhere easy: a park, their porch, a playdate where you stay. Bring your littles and watch how everyone gets along. Ask anything; a good host Momni loves the questions, because they're asking them right back.

We keep a whole page of meet-first wisdom from the community in our Suggested Momni Conduct.

What if plans change and I have to cancel?

Tell them the moment you know — the same courtesy you'd give a friend. There's no Momni cancellation fee because there's no Momni middleman; the arrangement is between you two. Momnis who communicate early and kindly are the Momnis everyone wants to Link with again.

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Hosting

your home, your rules

Hosting is how this whole movement started — one mama, one open door. Here's how it works when the open door is yours.

What does it cost to become a host?

Nothing. Hosting is currently free.

No listing fee, no membership requirement, no commission on what you earn. The goal is simple: the Momni doing the caring keeps what they earn.

Who sets my rate — and how much of it do I keep?

You set it. You keep every penny. Your profile says what you charge in your own words ("$8/hr, paid directly to me"), the booking Momni pays you directly, and Momni's share is zero — forever. Many hosts ask around their Circle to feel out what's normal nearby; it's your call entirely.

Do I need a license to host?

It depends on where you live. Every state — and sometimes every county — has its own rules about caring for children in your home: how many kiddos, how many hours, which situations need a family-childcare license. Informal, occasional care between friends is often treated differently than running a daycare — but the lines are local.

Knowing and following your local childcare laws is your responsibility as a host. A 10-minute search for "your state family child care license exempt" or a call to your state's child-care licensing office usually settles it. When in doubt, ask — your littles' friends deserve a host who did.

Can I host around my own family's schedule?

That's the design. You choose which kinds of care you offer (Available Now, Night Out, Recurring, Overnight), set a weekly availability grid (mornings, afternoons, evenings, overnights), and flip "available now" on only when you mean it. School-morning hosts, night-owl hosts, weekend-only hosts — all real, all welcome.

What about background checks?

Here's the honest version: Momni doesn't run background checks on anyone. What some Momnis choose to do is purchase their own background check and share it on their profile — like showing a new friend your references.

A shared report is that member's content: they bought it, they chose to display it, and Momni hasn't obtained, reviewed, or confirmed it. Weigh it the way you'd weigh anything a new friend showed you — with your own eyes and your own judgment, alongside meeting them, asking questions, and trusting your gut.

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The money

every penny, explained

Most platforms bury this page. We put it in the FAQ on purpose — radical honesty is cheaper than fine print.

Okay, honestly — how does Momni make money?

Small, flat, optional things. All of them together:

Free
$0
Profile, map, Circles, starter Links. Forever fine to stay here.
Circle Up
$1/mo · billed $12/yr
The "I'm in" membership that keeps the lights on.
Link Together
$1 per booking
Extra Links beyond the free ones, in little bundles.
Momni+
$4.99/mo or $49/yr
Everything included, for the Momnis who live here.
Momni Gives
$1 · voluntary
An optional toggle that goes to the Momni Foundation.
The Shop
books & goods
Circle Up (the book!), downloads, and Momni things.
What we never charge: a percentage of care payments, a hosting fee, or your data. Care money moves Momni-to-Momni and Momni never touches it.
Does Momni take a cut of what hosts earn?

Never. Zero percent. It's a founding promise.

Care payments are made directly between members. Momni never processes them, never holds them, never sets rates, and never takes a commission. Our only revenue is the flat platform pricing above — which is why a host's $8/hour is $8/hour.

Circle Up vs. Momni+ — which one is for me?

Circle Up ($1/mo, billed $12/yr) is the heartbeat membership — you're saying "count me in" and helping keep Momni running, with member perks as we grow. Named after Karmel's book, because that's where the movement's story lives.

Momni+ ($4.99/mo or $49/yr) is all-in: everything Momni offers, included, for Momnis who book or host all the time.

Start free, upgrade if Momni earns it. That's the order we want.

What's the Momni Gives toggle?

A voluntary $1 you can switch on, which goes to the Momni Foundation — the separate 501(c)(3) nonprofit that helps fund care for Momnis who can't afford it. Off by default, on if your heart says so, off again anytime. Every dollar is disclosed as a donation to the Foundation, not revenue for the company.

What's the difference between Momni, Inc. and the Momni Foundation?

One brand, two entities, separate wallets:

  • Momni, Inc. runs momni.com and app.momni.com — the community platform. A company.
  • The Momni Foundation (momnifoundation.org) is an independent 501(c)(3) nonprofit with its own finances and governance, helping Momnis in crisis afford care.

Money never quietly crosses between them. When you give through Momni Gives, it's a donation to the Foundation, full stop.

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The community

where the magic lives

Care is the doorway, but community is the house. Circles, the Campfire, badges — here's the life of the place.

What's a Circle?

A Circle is a local group of Momnis who actually gather — park playgroups, Momni nights out, welcome coffees for new faces. Find one near you on the Circles page or in the app, join in one tap, and show up. The Momnis you meet at Circle gatherings are usually the Momnis you end up Linking with.

How do I become a Circle Leader?

Start a Circle in the app, and you're its leader — with a real toolkit: a member roster, a gathering planner (weekly and monthly), one-tap email reminders to your members, and a grow kit of ready-to-post invites for your neighborhood groups.

Circle Leaders are the backbone of this movement. If you've ever been the one who organizes the group chat — you're already one of us.

What's the Campfire?

The community forum inside the app — where Momnis can share ideas, ask questions, celebrate wins, and talk with one another. The most-loved ideas help show what the community cares about, but posts and votes do not create any promise that Momni will respond, build, monitor, or take action.

What are the badges on profiles?

Little 💜s of recognition the community earns: 1.0 Founding Mama (they were here at the beginning), Super Host (many completed cares and warmly reviewed by fellow members), Campfire Spark / Flame / Keeper (they show up for the conversation), Foundation Giver, and more.

Plain English: badges reflect a Momni's activity and what other members said about them. They're community recognition — not an evaluation or endorsement by Momni.
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Were you a Momni in 1.0?

elephants never forget

26,000+ Momnis built the first Momni. If you were one of them — this section is a love letter to you.

What happened to the original Momni?

From 2017 to 2020, Momni grew from Karmel's living room to 26,000+ Momnis and hosts in all 50 states. Then COVID arrived, in-home care paused almost overnight, and Momni went quiet with it.

But movements don't die — they rest. Momni 2.0 is the relaunch: community-led, lighter on its feet, built to last this time. Same heart, same promise, stronger bones. The full story is on Our Story.

Is my old pin really still on the map?

Yes, Momni. We kept your light on.

Every 1.0 Momni appears on the Movement Map as a soft clay-colored dot — anonymous, city-level only, no names — a constellation of the first 26,000. When you come back and reclaim yours, it turns bright teal and becomes you again.

Your pin is still on the map. Come light it up.

How do I reclaim my pin?

Join at app.momni.com — if you can, use the same email you used back then, and tell us you're a 1.0 Momni. You'll wear the 1.0 Founding Mama badge from day one, and your dot on the map becomes a bright pin with your name on it (well — the name you choose to show).

Why elephants?

Because elephant mothers do what we do. They raise their young together — every calf has a circle of mothers and aunties watching over it. When a little one is threatened, the mothers close the circle around it. And elephants never forget — not a face, not a kindness, not one of their own.

26,000 Momnis. We remember every one. 🐘💜

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The honest stuff

we'd rather over-tell you

The questions some platforms hope you won't ask. We'd rather answer them in big type.

Does Momni check people out before they join?

No — and we won't pretend otherwise. Momni doesn't investigate, evaluate, approve, or stand behind any member. A profile on Momni means one thing: they signed up.

We built it this way on purpose, and we say it everywhere: trust on Momni is built the way parents have always built it — in person, over time, with your own eyes. Meet first. Ask everything. Start small. Trust your gut. The complete picture is on our Transparency page, and the practical steps are in Suggested Momni Conduct.

What do reviews actually tell me?

Reviews are Momnis sharing opinions with Momnis — one Momni's honest experience, in their own words. They're genuinely useful, the way a neighbor's recommendation is useful. But they're opinions, not assurances: Momni doesn't evaluate or endorse them, and a glowing history is not a promise about your experience. Read them, weigh them, and still do your own meeting and asking.

What should I do before the first visit?

The community's short list, earned the long way:

  • Meet first — somewhere easy, littles along, no rush.
  • Ask the hard questions — discipline, screens, food, pets, who else is home, naps, allergies.
  • Ask for references — and actually call them.
  • See the space where your littles will play and sleep.
  • Start small — an hour while you get coffee nearby before you book a full day.
  • Trust your instincts — if anything feels off, it's allowed to be a no. No explanation owed.

The full version lives at Suggested Momni Conduct.

What if something goes wrong — or I see something concerning?

If a child is in danger or a crime may have occurred: call 911 / your local authorities first. Always. Momni is a community platform, not an emergency service or an investigator — real emergencies belong with the people equipped for them.

You may also use the in-app reporting tools so concerns are documented on the platform. Reports do not replace contacting authorities, and Momni does not promise monitoring, investigation, intervention, removal, account closure, or any particular response.

Who can see my information?

Your profile shows what you choose to share — your exact address is never shown publicly, and your map pin sits at neighborhood level, not on your doorstep. We don't sell your data; we'd rather charge a dollar honestly than sell you quietly. Details in the Privacy Policy.

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